Feds Snatch Kids’ Tax Refunds to Pay Off Parents’ Old Debts

Uncle Sam is intercepting some taxpayers’ tax refund checks to collect on Social Security overpayments made to their parents — even decades ago.

If the government finds that your parent was overpaid for Social Security survivor benefits, you could be on the hook to pay it back. That’s right. Even if the debt is decades old, Uncle Sam could be coming after you.

A Maryland woman named Mary Grice found out the hard way that someone in her family was allegedly overpaid by Social Security in 1977. According to The Washington Post, the government confiscated both her federal and state tax refund checks to settle the old debt of $2,996.

“It was a shock,” said Grice, 58. “What incenses me is the way they went about this. They gave me no notice, they can’t prove that I received any overpayment, and they use intimidation tactics, threatening to report this to the credit bureaus.”

Grice’s father died in 1960, and his five children and his first wife received Social Security survivor benefits as a result. One of those recipients — it’s unknown which one — was overpaid in 1977. According to the rules, Social Security goes to the oldest of the living beneficiaries for the money, then works its way to the youngest until the debt is paid. The Post said:

The Federal Trade Commission, on its website, advises Americans that “family members typically are not obligated to pay the debts of a deceased relative from their own assets.” But Social Security officials say that if children indirectly received assistance from public dollars paid to a parent, the children’s money can be taken, no matter how long ago any overpayment occurred.

The Post says the feds have seized $75 million in tax refunds this year to settle debts owed to the government that are more than 10 years old. It added, “The aggressive effort to collect old debts started three years ago — the result of a single sentence tucked into the farm bill lifting the 10-year statute of limitations on old debts to Uncle Sam.”

Just so we’re clear on how this works: The government screws up and overpays Social Security survivor benefits. Then later (sometimes decades later) the government wants to right its past mistakes, and it comes after the children to do so.

CNBC said there’s a clear message here, and it’s disturbing.

Remember that the people who benefited from these alleged Social Security payments have not committed any crime — that’s why the government doesn’t need to provide any proof or real documentation. It’s more likely that the SSA simply screwed up and expects the descendants of its accidental beneficiaries to pay up. And again, the money comes out first before you can protest and find out why.

Not surprisingly, there’s reluctance on the government agencies’ part to step up and take credit for reopening the old cases, the Post said. Social Security says it wasn’t its idea – go ask Treasury. Not us, says the Treasury Department – check with Congress. Congress claims it was likely a move pushed by the bureaucracy.

Regardless of which agency is behind the seizure of tax refunds to pay off old debts, it’s happening. Did your family receive survivor benefits when you were a child? If there’s even a chance there was a mistake made, you might want to review and make potential revisions to your W-4 to make sure you don’t get a tax refund the government could seize.

What do you think of Uncle Sam targeting kids for their parents’ old debts? Share your comments below or on our Facebook page.

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  • Patrick Seitz

    Yet another reason to under-withhold and not get a tax refund. As if the rising prevalence of tax identity theft wasn’t bad enough.

  • Donald S Young

    This is just plain wrong, no argument!

  • Jerald R

    This is just wrong.

  • Jack Mabry

    This is not legal. Children are never responsible for parents debts, unless they co-signed. Take the IRS to court, it will be immediately thrown out.

  • CJN

    Something doesn’t quite click with this story. I’m not sure we are getting the whole picture here. Perhaps a few details left out, maybe some more media propaganda? Maybe not, but this smells fishy.

    • This isn’t “the media,” CJN. It’s my website, owned by me and edited by someone with 30 years experience in journalism. We don’t print propaganda.

  • rosaca322

    Get a lawyer. Relatives are not responsible when a shooter kills people how can they be responsible for the debts? By the way I herd when someone commits suicide owing a lot of money on credit cards the banks try to go to the family for repayment. In China if your in prison to be executed they make your parents pay for the bullet.

  • sunshinetogo

    If this is correct, the implications are frightening. Family members could be responsible for VA medical bills, school debt, repayment of any kind of government assistance, fines, etc., etc…. If this isn’t stopped, the problems will only increase. Many families have someone who is indebted to the government for some form of assistance. Will the government charge interest on what they consider overdue debts even for people who have died? If a person is alive and cannot pay, will family members be targeted for supposedly due monies? Will assets be seized of any available relative? And if this works for the government, could it be a pattern followed by big business and banks.

  • Liz

    This is ridiculous. Social Security is scam anyway. You work your whole life and the government takes this so called “benefit” out for you. Then you’re likely to die before you ever collect the full amount you paid in, and when you do die before you can collect it, no one else gets to receive that money. It’s a screwed up system.

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