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Ever wonder about a problem like this one? It’s more common than you think.
My husband handled all our money for 45 years. Now he’s gone, and I keep finding old statements from companies I’ve never heard of. How do I know what he left me?
That’s Helen, 74, a widow sorting through a desk drawer full of paper. Her question is one a lot of surviving spouses ask, and the answer can be worth real money.
Consider life insurance alone.
Since the National Association of Insurance Commissioners launched its free Life Insurance Policy Locator in November 2016, insurers have reported more than 780,000 matches with life insurance policies or annuities, totaling $16,991,229,586 through July 31, 2026. (1) That’s nearly $17 billion in benefits that might otherwise have stayed lost. Or, to be more precise, in the accounts of insurance companies.
The Policy Locator is just one place to look. State governments hold what the National Association of Unclaimed Property Administrators calls “literally billions of dollars in unclaimed property.” (2) The U.S. Labor Department runs a database to help people find old retirement plans from private-sector employers and unions. (3)
I’ve been a CPA since 1981. Here’s the good news: forgotten money often doesn’t vanish. It just loses its address. Here are three free places to look first, a trap to avoid, and the one move that keeps your own family from searching.
1. Start with the states’ unclaimed property lists
When an account sits with no activity or contact for a set period, called the dormancy period, the money is considered unclaimed and by law must be turned over to the state. (2)
Unclaimed property can include checking or savings accounts, refunds, certificates of deposit, utility security deposits, safe deposit box contents and annuities. (2)
My advice: Helen should search in every state where she and her husband lived or worked, not just the current one, and under both names.
The best part: “It’s free to search for yours.” (2)
2. Run the national life insurance search
That desk drawer may hold a clue to a policy, but often it doesn’t. A policy bought decades ago through a job or a mail-in offer can be easy to forget.
The NAIC’s Life Insurance Policy Locator is free, and requests go through a secure, encrypted portal. (1)
If a policy does turn up, Helen may suddenly have a lump sum to manage — and a lot of decisions about taxes and income to make while she’s still grieving. That’s the time it makes sense to get a second set of eyes: a seasoned financial advisor.
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3. Check for old 401(k)s and pensions — including your own
The Labor Department’s Retirement Savings Lost and Found is described as “a centralized location to find lost or forgotten benefits.” It covers “retirement plans linked to your Social Security number that were sponsored by private-sector employers and unions.” (3)
Note those words: your Social Security number. It looks up plans linked to your own number, and you sign in through Login.gov. (3)
So Helen should run it for herself — a job she had in 1985 may have left her a small benefit, too. For her husband’s old jobs, my advice is to call each former employer’s plan administrator, explain that he died and ask what survivor benefits exist. The statements in that drawer are her best leads.
4. Never pay a “finder” for a search that’s free
Some companies offer to recover unclaimed money for a fee. Before you sign anything, search yourself.
The unclaimed-property administrators say searching is free, (2) and the NAIC calls its locator a free tool. (1) A fee to find your own money is a fee you probably don’t need to pay.
5. Leave your family a map
Here’s the real lesson from Helen’s drawer. She shouldn’t have to play detective at the worst moment of her life — and neither should your spouse or kids.
This weekend, make a simple list of every account, policy and pension, with phone numbers. Then put your wishes in writing.
Without a plan, courts decide everything, probate drags on for months, and loved ones are left guessing. If you don’t already have one, shield them with a will, a trust or both — today.
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My honest take
In a lot of marriages, one person keeps the books and the other trusts them to. That works fine right up until it doesn’t.
If you’re the one who handles the money, sit down with your spouse this month and walk through the list together. If you’re the one who doesn’t, ask. It’s not morbid. It’s the most loving half hour of paperwork you’ll ever do.
Sources: 1. National Association of Insurance Commissioners; 2. National Association of Unclaimed Property Administrators; 3. U.S. Department of Labor (Retirement Savings Lost and Found)
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