9 Ways to Stop Buying Things You Don’t Need

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Retailers are exceptional at getting us to part with our hard-earned dollars, even for stuff we don’t need.

When your favorite store slashes prices or makes it all too easy to purchase something — hello, Amazon Prime — it may be understandable if you occasionally succumb to the instant gratification of an impulse buy.

But if your spending has gotten out of control or you’ve resolved to buy less, then these strategies can help.

1. Order groceries online

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If you tend to go to the grocery store for specific items and end up stocking your cart with extras, going digital for a while might help you curb your spending.

When you order groceries online, whether you get them delivered or pick them up curbside, you can stick to just what’s on your list and eyeball the total before hitting “place order.”

Many grocers offer free pickup for online orders now. If you prefer to have your groceries delivered to your home, there are services like Instacart and Shipt.

2. Say ‘no’ to junk mail

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Junk mail tends to come loaded with offers. If they tempt you to spend money, then your best bet is to unsubscribe.

You have a few ways to opt out of direct mail, such as catalogs and marketing offers you receive by mail.

You can register and pay a small fee to DMAchoice, a mail-suppression service. The service can help “reduce promotional mail offers from companies or organizations you don’t have a business relationship with.”

CatalogChoice is another option you have. This nonprofit is dedicated to reducing paper junk mail. According to its website, you can “use this free service to cancel specific catalogs and other types of paper mail you no longer wish to receive.”

There’s also OptOutPrescreen.com, which accepts and processes consumers’ requests to opt in or out of insurance and credit offers.

3. Log the purchases you don’t make

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Bear with us here and try this trick: Every time you consider buying something that is a want rather than a need, add the amount you would have spent to a dedicated spreadsheet or tracker instead of buying it. Then, invest the money you would have spent.

Money Talks News President Dan Schointuch started this approach when the stock market tumbled during the pandemic and says it works for him.

“The act of ‘shopping’ and putting these products on a list sort of tricks my brain into investing more instead of spending,” he says.

4. Uninstall retailers’ apps

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If you find yourself using your smartphone to make a ton of purchases, then uninstalling retailer apps can give your wallet (and your thumbs) a break. You’re probably less likely to buy something if you have to find a computer, log in and complete the purchase online.

5. Unsubscribe from retailers’ emails

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Retailer newsletters are a great way to stay on top of sales and receive promotional discounts, but they also pose a major temptation to spend money. Next time you receive such an email, hit the “unsubscribe” button — which is usually found at the very bottom of the message, often in a tiny font.

And if you’re asked for an email address at a storefront or at an online checkout, simply don’t provide one.

6. Don’t save your credit card info online

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Some retailers allow you to save your payment information within your online account, but this makes it easier to spend money.

Removing your payment info is not only safer — but it also means you have to do more work before you make a purchase. Unless you’ve memorized your credit card number, you’ll have to get up and track down your wallet before making each online purchase.

7. Pay with cash when possible

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You may have heard that people tend to spend less when using cash — and there’s research to back it up. For example, the Federal Reserve Bank of San Francisco found that the average cash transaction was $39 versus $95 for noncash transactions in 2022.

Every time you have to open your wallet, count the money and hand over cash, it’s more painful than clicking a “buy” button online or swiping a credit card.

This method may either help you avoid impulse buys altogether or at least spend less on your next errand.

8. Ignore urgent marketing messages

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Have you ever seen a message like “limited-time offer” or “just two items left at this price” and felt the urge to buy it? The impulse may be attributed to the economic principle of scarcity, which basically says you’re more likely to buy something that’s less available.

When you see these urgent messages, give yourself a day or so to calm down. Leave the store, or leave the item in your shopping cart if you’re online. Once you come back to the item with a fresh perspective, you might decide to pass on the purchase altogether.

9. Get backup from an app

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If the idea of giving yourself time to cool off is appealing, but you don’t want to wait a whole day — or just aren’t sure of your self-control — you have another option.

The app One Sec is primarily designed to keep you from opening social media apps and doom scrolling, but you can also use it to impose a mandatory delay before letting you into an app to make purchases. That gives you a long, agonizing moment to rethink your decision.

Staying off social media could help curtail your spending too, since you’re likely bombarded with tailored ads, tempting you to spend.

 

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