7 Reasons Cremation is Becoming America’s Favorite Last Act

The new popularity of cremation makes for new traditions, such as pressing your loved one's remains into a piece of diamond jewelry, or a record album, or a home for fish.

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Faced with the choice of burial or cremation, Americans increasingly are choosing cremation.

Cremations have tripled since 1985. By 2013, 45 percent of deaths in the United States ended in cremation, according to the most recent data collected by the Cremation Society of North America and provided to Money Talks News.

According to a new report by the National Funeral Directors Association, a greater number of people will opt for cremation than burial in 2015.

CANA’s figures on cremation show the rapid increase in recent years and suggest that the practice will predominate in 2018:

  • 1988: 15 percent
  • 1998: 24 percent
  • 2008: 36 percent
  • 2018: nearly 51 percent (projected)

Revival of an ancient practice

The tradition of cremation, applying high heat to human or animal remains to reduce them to basic chemical compounds, is hardly new. The oldest evidence of the practice, found at Lake Mungo in Australia, is 50,000 years old.

Cremation in Europe is believed to have begun in the Stone Age, according to CANA. It was used in ancient Greece and Rome until displaced by Christian burial customs. Indigenous people in the Pacific Northwest and Canada used cremation, and it has long roots in Asia, for example in Hinduism and Tibetan Buddhism.

The growth of cremation in the United States began in the late 1800s with the invention of modern crematories, largely in answer to public health concerns. In 1913, there were 52 crematories in North America, compared with 2,803 in operation in the United States alone in 2013.

Cost tops the list of driving forces behind the surge in cremation, but environmental concerns and changing religious beliefs also play a role.

1. Cost savings

Cost is one of the biggest reasons for Americans’ embrace of cremation. Funerals are expensive. The NFDA’s most recent survey of costs puts the median price of an adult funeral at $7,045. That includes embalming and a casket, but not the cemetery’s charges. Cremation costs about a third of that.

(Read 15 Ways to Have a Memorable Funeral on the Cheap for a breakdown of funeral costs).

DFS Memorials, a U.S. network of 85 providers, claims to offer lower costs for simple, no-frills cremation services. This “direct cremation,” DFS explains,

… is the industry term for a very basic cremation where no prefuneral services are provided. The deceased is simply collected, cremated and the remains returned to the family.

Direct cremation can be obtained in most U.S. metro areas for $500–$800, the company says.

Don’t succumb to funerary up-sell, which is said to be common in the funeral business. For example, there’s no need for embalming with cremation. Some funeral directors offer or even urge embalming with a cremation, according to Caleb Wilde, a sixth-generation funeral director and blogger at Confessions of a Funeral Director.

2. Shift toward secularism

Burial is closely tied to religious tradition. The Religion & Public Life Project by Pew Research reports a growth in the number of Americans claiming no affiliation with a particular faith. Today, 16.1 percent of Americans are unaffiliated, but among those ages 18-29, roughly 25 percent claim no faith ties.

3. Changing church rules

Some faiths are relaxing or changing their traditions to include cremation. Some churches have even begun to plan columbaria, a vault with niches for storing the ashes of the deceased, on church property, according to the CANA 2014 report.

4. Concern for land preservation

Many Americans choose cremation because it preserves land, says the nonprofit Funeral Consumers Alliance.

5. Flexibility

Cremation lets you keep — or discard — as many pieces of a traditional funeral as you wish, because it eliminates the need for a speedy burial for health and legal reasons. Families and friends have time and leeway to organize memorial services, and they often choose to hold gatherings at home or in other less-formal surroundings instead of in funeral homes or religious institutions.

“You don’t need to purchase a grave lot (although you still can if you wish), you don’t need to purchase a vault and you don’t need to pay for the opening and closing of the grave,” writes Wilde, the mortician blogger.

6. America’s spread-out families

When most families lived and stayed near one another, burials brought people together. Family members were buried near one another, and descendants could visit ancestors interred nearby. Today, we move more frequently and families are dispersed, breaking down burial traditions that are tied to certain places. The remains from cremation can move with family members wherever they go. Or they can be scattered at locations unconnected to a cemetery.

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