8 Ways to Feel Rich When You’re Not

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At one point or another, most of us have been there, trying to stretch a small paycheck around bills that only seem to get bigger. And the often-parroted strategies for making ends meet are largely the same: buy second-hand, clip coupons, wait for sales, etc.

But there’s more to life than just figuring out the best way to get by. If small paychecks are a fact of life for you (at least right now), here’s how to rethink the numbers and maybe even begin to feel rich.

Before we start, check out this video. It’s about how to save 10 percent or more on everything you buy.

Now, here are eight ways to feel big while living on a small income.

1. Allow yourself small indulgences

Feeling wealthy despite a small paycheck is often as simple as allowing yourself small indulgences. Splurge for your favorite coffee drink on Friday afternoons, skip the spa weekend and invest instead in a 10-minute chair massage, have a good glass of wine with dinner, or carve out some time for a Saturday matinee.

Little luxuries reward our hard efforts, keep us motivated, and offer a temporary respite from constant budget-watching.

2. Barter

Get what you need without using cash. Bartering is one of the oldest forms of commerce, and it’s enjoying a revival.

Instead of trying to figure out how you’re going to save enough cash to pay for X, Y or Z, brainstorm ways to use the barter system. What skills, services or unused items could be traded for what you need and would otherwise have to pay for? Could you swap childcare services on a Saturday for an oil change? Could you tutor the neighbor’s kid in algebra in exchange for snow removal services? How about trading that old moped for your friend’s unused table saw?

Bartering is all about leveraging relationships to find innovative solutions that are a win for everybody.

3. Stay ahead of the interest game

Nothing shrinks an already small paycheck faster than interest. No matter how tempting it may be to alleviate a temporary budget crunch through the use of a credit card or worse, a payday loan, actively avoid both. The interest rate and terms on each can turn a small budget challenge into a chronic debt nightmare and leave you feeling poorer than ever.

If you’re ready to kick the credit card habit, here are some pointers to get you started.

4. Save anything you can

Get over the notion that in order for saving to really matter, you have to stash hundreds of dollars at a time.

Saving is an exercise in patience, persistence and incremental success. You can slowly build wealth and enjoy all the psychological rewards that go along with increasing your financial security by saving $10 here and $20 there. Once you decide to do it, the key to success is simple: Stick with it, don’t waver, and don’t let temporary wants drain what you’ve worked so hard to accumulate.

5. Stagger your bill-paying cycles

Many companies these days allow customers to adjust their billing cycles. If switching your cellphone or car insurance invoice from the 15th to the 1st of the month would help alleviate some budget stress, make a few phone calls.

You might be surprised how willing companies are to help you help them!

6. Run your own race

The quickest way to feel bad about what you don’t have is to focus on what others do.

Try not to play the comparison game; it’ll only tempt you to buy what you can’t afford and leave you feeling worse than ever. Instead, focus on where you started, what you’ve built so far, and what your goals are. Realize that every paycheck, however modest, is a another step toward strengthening your financial position and funding those goals.

7. Rethink wealth

It may sound a bit Pollyanna or overly simple, but wealth comes in different forms. Instead of concentrating solely on your small paycheck and what it won’t buy, try to find the surplus all around you.

Maybe your wealth is time, and it allows you to focus on relationships, family and building new skills. Maybe you’re surrounded by dear friends who enrich your life in countless ways. Maybe you’ve just earned a degree and have a wealth of education and training that’s just waiting to be put to use.

Sure, money’s great, and who wouldn’t want to make more of it? But don’t get hung up on a number to the exclusion of your other riches.

8. Minimize the messaging

Any advice on living a rich life despite a small paycheck would ring hollow without acknowledging an important truth: We live in a sea of commercial messages that equate money and possessions with satisfaction and happiness.

Ads surround us every day and everywhere we go. We’re told that our teeth aren’t white enough, our breath isn’t wintry-fresh enough, our phone isn’t smart enough, and our mood isn’t happy enough. No wonder we look at our paychecks and think, “How can I correct my long list of imperfections with this little thing?”

The truth is, you can’t. But you can become more aware of how advertisers use disruption and discord to create desire. Minimize the messages you’re exposed to. Scale back TV watching; don’t make the mall the center of your social world; and find a replacement for shopping as the go-to activity when it’s time for a bit of R&R with friends or family.

One final thing: If anyone tries to sell you on the joys of life on a perpetually small paycheck, question his motives. My goal isn’t to encourage you to settle for less and just learn to love it. It’s to embrace the reality of each situation, live in the moment, and not get stuck in a cycle where your energy is depleted by a constant sense of deprivation.

The best lesson of all is to feel empowered regardless of your income and be motivated to identify and seize those opportunities that could improve your life.

What are your strategies for feeling rich on a not-so-rich budget? Share your comments below or on our Facebook page.

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