Ask Stacy: My Online Purchase Was a Rip-Off — Now What?

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Today’s question is about what to do when an online purchase goes bad.

It’s happened to all of us. We don’t get what was promised, or sometimes we don’t get anything at all. Here’s how to prevent it from happening, and exactly what to do if it happens anyway.

For more information on this topic, check out “7 Ways to Guard Your Wallet — and Identity — When Shopping Online” and “5 Super Easy Ways to Save Money Shopping Online.” You can also go to the search at the top of this page, put in the words “online shopping” and find plenty of information on just about everything relating to this topic.

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Don’t want to watch? Here’s what I said in the video

Hello, everyone, and welcome to your money Q&A question of the day. I’m your host, Stacy Johnson, and this question is brought to you by MoneyTalksNews.com, serving up the best in personal finance news and advice since 1991.

Let’s get right to our question. It comes from Davy. Davy says:

“I ordered some shoes online. Well, not only did they send the wrong shoes, but they’re knockoffs. I emailed the site like five times. There’s no response, and that’s the only contact info there is on the site. It says the place is based in Paris. I paid with a credit card. What can I do to get my $120 back?”

Here’s a lesson we all need to learn. Before you buy anything online, look at the website. Do they have a physical address? Where is it? Do they have a phone number? If the only information is an email address, that’s not a good sign. Also, before you shop, look for reviews. It only takes a few seconds. Simply type the name of the store into your favorite search engine, along with the word, “reviews,” and see what comes up.

That doesn’t help Davy, but hopefully it will help prevent you from getting into a situation like Davy’s.

If you do find yourself unsatisfied with any purchase, online or off, here’s what to do.

First, when you’ve got a problem with a merchant — or anyone else for that matter — document everything you do. Record the time and date when you sent an email, when you made a phone call, when you sent a letter, as well as exactly what was said by both parties. This is critical if you want to be taken seriously in a dispute.

Second, always pay with a credit card. Always. The reason? With a credit card, your bank will step between you and the vendor and help you solve a problem. They won’t do this with a debit card.

If you don’t get satisfaction from your documented discussions with the merchant, simply call your bank — the number’s probably right on the back of your credit card — and tell them:

  • “I received inferior merchandise.”
  • “What was delivered is not what was promised.”
  • “I never got anything at all.”

Whatever the situation.

The card issuer will then have you file a formal written dispute. Shortly thereafter, your bank will likely go to the company, take the money out of that merchant’s bank account and refund it to you.

This is why it’s important to go to the vendor first and try to work out the problem. Don’t start with the bank.

When a bank reverses a merchant charge, it could really hurt (the merchant), because if they get enough of them, they could lose the ability to accept credit cards. And if you’re a web business, that means you’re out of business. So, merchants should be cooperative. But if the situation is truly just fraud, you might still get your money back.

Hope that answers your question, Davy. Let’s close today with our quote of the day. This is from Voltaire.

“Don’t think money does everything, or you’re gonna end up doing everything for money.”

Make it a profitable day and meet me right here next time!

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I founded Money Talks News in 1991. I’m a CPA, and have also earned licenses in stocks, commodities, options principal, mutual funds, life insurance, securities supervisor and real estate.

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