Couples do so much together — make a home, have a family. It’s time that they get their finances in sync as well.
Taking time to discuss and evaluate finances can go a long way toward eliminating fights about money and keeping financial goals on track.
Following are several smart financial moves for couples to take this Valentine’s Day — or any other day of the year:
1. Have a financial date night
Establish a recurring time to sit down together to review your progress toward your existing financial goals, or to set new goals and plan out how you will reach them.
Eric Roberge, a certified financial planner and founder of Beyond Your Hammock, a Boston-based financial services firm, has a financial date night with his wife each month.
“My wife and I have monthly money meetings where we come together and do a review of our budget, spending, goals (and progress to them), and during that meeting we also give each other the space to share whatever might be on our mind about our money or upcoming decisions. We can then iterate on our plan and make adjustments as we go.”
2. Consider joint accounts
Consider opening joint financial accounts with your loved one, or at least adding each other to your existing individual accounts.
Money Talks News founder Stacy Johnson warns against one-size-fits-all approaches in “Ask Stacy: Should My Wife and I Have Separate Checking Accounts?”
Many spouses do opt for joint accounts, though. Stacy explains:
“Keeping everything together has advantages. First, when everything’s combined, it’s faster to get a quick, complete overview of your money. It’s also harder to keep money secrets, which can be a source of friction for some couples. Finally, if something should happen and one of you becomes incapacitated, the other has access to all the family funds.”
Separate accounts also have advantages, however.
Whether joint or separate accounts is better depends on your situation. So, you and your significant other should have a conversation about which option better suits your relationship and your finances.
3. Label and use images with financial accounts
Getting creative with your financial accounts can help motivate you to stay on track with financial goals.
Rick Vazza, a certified financial planner at Driven Wealth Management in San Diego, recommends that couples open accounts that are specific to their goals and name the accounts based on those goals.
“(For) example, (a) couple has a travel account, a down-payment account and a college account for their child. Most institutions will allow you to nickname the account so you can label it appropriately. If possible, it is even more advantageous if you can upload an image to associate with the account. Research shows labeling and imagery to be powerful motivators toward reaching savings goals,” Vazza says.