2021’s Best Cities to Get and Stay Married

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Editor's Note: This story originally appeared on LawnStarter.

As the country opens up, there’s never been a better time to tie — or tighten — the knot. In fact, the 2021 wedding season is projected to be the biggest ever.

But your chances of marital bliss vary from city to city. So where should you settle down with your significant other for the best chance at a happily ever after?

LawnStarter ranked the best cities to get (and stay) married by comparing the 150 biggest U.S. cities across 11 key indicators of nuptial success — from the rate of married households to the change in the divorce rate to the number of wedding venues in each city. Following are the top cities.

(FYI: As the gloom of the COVID-19 pandemic ends and you pick out your wedding attire, brights are in, while darks are out.)

1. Fremont, CA

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Overall score: 74.87

Married population rank: 1

Unmarried population rank: 1

Wedding-friendliness rank: 11

2. Jersey City, NJ

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Overall score: 67.87

Married population rank: 19

Unmarried population rank: 4

Wedding-friendliness rank: 3

3. Glendale, CA

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Overall score: 66.91

Married population rank: 87

Unmarried population rank: 17

Wedding-friendliness rank: 1

4. Arlington, VA

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Overall score: 60.91

Married population rank: 73

Unmarried population rank: 19

Wedding-friendliness rank: 2

5. Santa Ana, CA

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Overall score: 57.36

Married population rank: 10

Unmarried population rank: 90

Wedding-friendliness rank: 10

6. Oakland, CA

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Overall score: 57.12

Married population rank: 36

Unmarried population rank: 57

Wedding-friendliness rank: 4

7. Honolulu, HI

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Overall score: 56.84

Married population rank: 43

Unmarried population rank: 16

Wedding-friendliness rank: 9

8. Santa Clarita, CA

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Overall score: 56.76

Married population rank: 2

Unmarried population rank: 12

Wedding-friendliness rank: 55

9. Washington, D.C.

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Overall score: 54.87

Married population rank: 63

Unmarried population rank: 46

Wedding-friendliness rank: 7

10. San Francisco, CA

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Overall score: 54.85

Married population rank: 26

Unmarried population rank: 34

Wedding-friendliness rank: 16

11. Ontario, CA

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Overall score: 54.77

Married population rank: 13

Unmarried population rank: 33

Wedding-friendliness rank: 26

12. Irvine, CA

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Overall score: 53.68

Married population rank: 22

Unmarried population rank: 37

Wedding-friendliness rank: 20

13. Rancho Cucamonga, CA

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Overall score: 53.64

Married population rank: 12

Unmarried population rank: 7

Wedding-friendliness rank: 47

14. Fort Lauderdale, FL (tie)

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Overall score: 52.65

Married population rank: 42

Unmarried population rank: 126

Wedding-friendliness rank: 5

14. Newark, NJ (tie)

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Overall score: 52.65

Married population rank: 108

Unmarried population rank: 50

Wedding-friendliness rank: 6

16. Orlando, FL

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Overall score: 52.08

Married population rank: 41

Unmarried population rank: 63

Wedding-friendliness rank: 14

17. Providence, RI

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Overall score: 51.70

Married population rank: 50

Unmarried population rank: 79

Wedding-friendliness rank: 13

18. Tacoma, WA

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Overall score: 51.12

Married population rank: 56

Unmarried population rank: 20

Wedding-friendliness rank: 21

19. Anaheim, CA

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Overall score: 50.92

Married population rank: 68

Unmarried population rank: 74

Wedding-friendliness rank: 12

20. Plano, TX

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Overall score: 50.11

Married population rank: 7

Unmarried population rank: 8

Wedding-friendliness rank: 102

21. San Jose, CA

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Overall score: 50.10

Married population rank: 14

Unmarried population rank: 28

Wedding-friendliness rank: 51

22. Irving, TX

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Overall score: 49.65

Married population rank: 16

Unmarried population rank: 11

Wedding-friendliness rank: 71

23. Santa Rosa, CA

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Overall score: 49.59

Married population rank: 39

Unmarried population rank: 85

Wedding-friendliness rank: 18

24. Fontana, CA

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Overall score: 49.27

Married population rank: 5

Unmarried population rank: 55

Wedding-friendliness rank: 83

25. Chesapeake, VA

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Overall score: 48.94

Married population rank: 17

Unmarried population rank: 5

Wedding-friendliness rank: 97

26. Denver, CO

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Overall score: 48.91

Married population rank: 74

Unmarried population rank: 41

Wedding-friendliness rank: 23

27. Overland Park, KS

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Overall score: 48.89

Married population rank: 24

Unmarried population rank: 30

Wedding-friendliness rank: 49

28. Huntington Beach, CA

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Overall score: 48.42

Married population rank: 49

Unmarried population rank: 116

Wedding-friendliness rank: 15

29. Salt Lake City, UT

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Overall score: 48.17

Married population rank: 100

Unmarried population rank: 25

Wedding-friendliness rank: 22

30. Grand Prairie, TX

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Overall score: 47.68

Married population rank: 9

Unmarried population rank: 64

Wedding-friendliness rank: 82


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We ranked the 150 largest U.S. cities from best (No. 1) to worst (No. 200) based on their overall scores (out of 100 possible points), averaged across these weighted metrics:

  • Married Population
  • Rate of Married Households
  • 5-Year Difference in Rate of Married Households
  • Unmarried Population
  • Share of Never-Married Young People
  • 5-Year Difference in Share of Never-Married Young People
  • Separation and Divorce Rate
  • 5-Year Difference in Separation and Divorce Rate
  • Wedding-Friendliness
  • Wedding Chapels and Churches per 100,000 Residents
  • Venues and Event Spaces per 100,000 Residents
  • Event Planners per 100,000 Residents
  • Bridal Shops per 100,000 Residents
  • Tuxedo Shops per 100,000 Residents

Why This Study Matters

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After a heartbreaking year of delays and cancellations, wedding season is back on in full force. And though pandemic restrictions are all but erased, many couples are choosing to exchange their vows outdoors for safety.

But physical health isn’t the only consideration for couples on their big day — they need to protect the health of their marriage, too. That depends not just on their level of commitment to each other, but also on the durability of other marriages in their circle.

According to researchers, “a couple’s social situation and community network can also affect the status of their marriage and their prospects for marital dissolution.” In other words, being surrounded by successful or failed marriages can influence a couple’s own marital success or risk of divorce.

So if you’re hoping for everlasting love — or feel like your marriage is on the rocks — try renewing your vows or moving to one of the best cities to get (and stay) married.

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